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What does it mean?
People often want positive outcomes without enduring the necessary pain or changes to achieve them.
In plain terms
You cannot have a cure without pain or progress without change.
What can you take from it?
Accept that real change requires pain or effort.

Where it applies

  • personal development
  • organizational change
  • health recovery

Putting it to work

  • embrace necessary discomfort
  • plan for change

Questions to consider

  • What change are you resisting?
  • Are you looking for a pain-free solution?

Another view

Sometimes progress can happen without significant pain.

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