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What does it mean?
The quote advises caution in love when the other person's feelings are unclear, but emphasizes paying close attention if you know the feeling is mutual.
In plain terms
Be careful if you do not know if they love you, but pay close attention if you know you love them.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize self-awareness and caution in romantic uncertainty.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • confessions
  • unrequited love

Putting it to work

  • assess mutual feelings
  • act with care

Questions to consider

  • How sure are you of your own heart?
  • What care do you take in ambiguity?

Another view

It assumes feelings are easily identifiable within oneself.

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