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What does it mean?
Embarrassment feels harder to handle than impossible tasks.
In plain terms
Avoiding shame is hard.
What can you take from it?
Fear of shame drives behavior.

Where it applies

  • public speaking
  • social interactions

Putting it to work

  • building confidence
  • facing fears

Questions to consider

  • Is embarrassment worse than failure?
  • Do you avoid awkwardness?

Another view

Impossible tasks can still cause stress.

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