When an acquaintance goes by I often step back from my window, not so much to spare him the effort of acknowledging me as to spare myself the embarrassment of seeing that he has not done so.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker avoids acknowledging an acquaintance to protect their own ego from rejection.
- In plain terms
- I hide to avoid feeling ignored by others.
- What can you take from it?
- Pride often drives social avoidance.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do you avoid greetings?
- Is it fear or pride?
Another view
It assumes the acquaintance deliberately ignored the speaker.
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