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What does it mean?
Affectation describes pretending to value something you secretly wish you already possessed.
In plain terms
People pretend to like things they wish they already had.
What can you take from it?
Pretense often masks desire.

Where it applies

  • social signaling
  • self-presentation

Putting it to work

  • recognizing pretense
  • aligning values and actions

Questions to consider

  • When do you pretend to like something?
  • What do you wish you believed about yourself?

Another view

It assumes all affectation comes from hidden desire.

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