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What does it mean?
He defines an agreeable person simply as someone who agrees with him.
In plain terms
He thinks a nice person is just one who agrees with him.
What can you take from it?
Agreement is often mistaken for agreeableness.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • friendship dynamics
  • debate

Putting it to work

  • recognize bias in approval
  • value dissent

Questions to consider

  • Is agreement required for friendship?
  • Do you prefer yes-men?

Another view

It admits to preferring flattery over honest dialogue.

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