The thing was not discussable, even with a near acquaintance like Calvin because : because of the nature of the thing : because one had to behave like a normal, unworried human being. That at least was sound and clear and gave him comfort: behave like a normal human being.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Someone hides a serious issue by acting normal to find comfort.
- In plain terms
- Pretending to be normal helps cope with hidden stress.
- What can you take from it?
- Normalcy can be a coping mechanism.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When do you pretend to be normal?
- What secrets do you keep?
Another view
It normalizes hiding pain rather than addressing it.
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