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What does it mean?
Someone hides a serious issue by acting normal to find comfort.
In plain terms
Pretending to be normal helps cope with hidden stress.
What can you take from it?
Normalcy can be a coping mechanism.

Where it applies

  • hiding stress
  • maintaining appearances
  • dealing with secrets

Putting it to work

  • seek genuine connection
  • acknowledge stress

Questions to consider

  • When do you pretend to be normal?
  • What secrets do you keep?

Another view

It normalizes hiding pain rather than addressing it.

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