Everything I've learned in life I've learned either by doing it or watching the changes other people go through. And when you're famous, you don't get to meet people - because they want you to like them when they present themselves to you, present the best sides of themselves, and you don't see the real people. Which is why I don't really go anywhere. And when I do, I put on my silly face and do what they expect me to do. Actually, I never do what they expect me to do. It's the only way I could go on doing what I have to do. I do whatever I: you know, I didn't even comb my hair today. I didn't know we were taking pictures but when I found out, it didn't change my mind any.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Learning comes from direct experience or observing others. Fame isolates you from authentic human connection because people hide their true selves around you.
- In plain terms
- You learn by doing or watching others, but fame makes it hard to see real people.
- What can you take from it?
- Protect your authenticity by avoiding situations where you are perform for others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you maintain authenticity in a performative world?
- What role does observation play in your learning?
Another view
Avoiding all social contact can lead to further isolation and disconnect from reality.
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