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What does it mean?
Parents often ruin the first half of life with control while children ruin the second with worry.
In plain terms
Parents and children make life hard.
What can you take from it?
Family relationships bring lifelong burdens.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • middle age
  • reflection

Putting it to work

  • manage expectations
  • appreciate stages

Questions to consider

  • What did parents ruin?
  • What will children ruin?

Another view

Family can also bring great joy.

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