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No lover in any language, and certainly no poet, has confessed to missing the mark more often than Dafydd ap Gwilym. Uncooperative husbands, quick-triggered alarms, crones and walls, strong locks, floods and fogs and bogs and dogs are for ever interposing themselves between him and golden-haired Morfudd, black-browed Dyddgu, or Gwen the infinitely fair. But a great trier, even in church.

Dafydd ap Gwilym#15

WelshFateHumorLove

About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker humorously laments the many obstacles that keep him from his beloved, highlighting the absurdity of fate.
In plain terms
He jokes about endless obstacles blocking his love.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that life often throws absurd hurdles.

Where it applies

  • dating challenges
  • project delays

Putting it to work

  • keep a sense of humor
  • plan for contingencies

Questions to consider

  • What ‘obstacles’ do you face in love?
  • How can humor help you cope?

Another view

The humor may be lost without cultural context.

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  1. Nythod ddwyn, cyd nithud ddail, Ni'th dditia neb, ni'th etail, Na llu rhugl, na llaw rhaglaw, Na llafn glas na llif na glaw.

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  2. Yet Dafydd's humour does not obscure, any more than Chaucer's does, the underlying seriousness of his poetry. Behind his poems of requited and unrequited love,…

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  3. Yr wybrwynt helynt hylaw Agwrdd drwst a gerdda draw, Gwr eres wyd garw ei sain, Drud byd heb droed heb adain.

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