Skip to content
quotesby

About this quote

What does it mean?
Consent is clear and direct: no means no, yes means welcome.
In plain terms
Respect boundaries clearly; no is no, yes is welcome.
What can you take from it?
Be clear and respectful about consent.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • social interaction
  • dating

Putting it to work

  • Communicate clearly
  • respect boundaries
  • affirm consent

Questions to consider

  • How do you communicate boundaries clearly?

Another view

This direct language may feel too blunt for some contexts.

More from Dave Matthews

  1. 'I think I'm gonna take a seat for this one. Sometimes you just gotta take a fucking load off.' June, 2005. Hartford, Connecticut.

    Permalink to quote #32
  2. So I watched the Pink Panther last night, and so I'm trying desperately to be funny, and then it's just not working out so good... I wonder if maybe I could've…

    Permalink to quote #34
  3. 'The world is in an awfully fucked up place right now, and it's just good to see so many people in the same place having a good time.' - Dave *DMB LIVE 6/3/06 …

    Permalink to quote #31

Related quotes

  1. In 1967: I've never been out with a married woman, never. I respect others' properties.

    Michael CaineMichael Caine quote #1
  2. I'm not a prude, I just want some respect (that's right) So close the door if you want me to respond Cause privacy is my middle name My last name is control No…

    Janet JacksonJanet Jackson quote #2
  3. If nobody minds, it doesn't matter.

    Ann LandersAnn Landers quote #5