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What does it mean?
Koontz argues that pain is necessary for humanity because it fosters fear, humility, and pity for others.
In plain terms
Pain is good because it teaches us humility and compassion for others.
What can you take from it?
Suffering builds empathy and humanity through shared pain.

Where it applies

  • comforting others
  • ethical discussions
  • personal loss

Putting it to work

  • practicing compassion
  • acknowledging suffering

Questions to consider

  • How does pain connect you to others?
  • Is suffering necessary for empathy?

Another view

Not all pain leads to growth or empathy.

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