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'Sometimes,' I said, 'it seems to me that a friend might not take such pleasure in making fun of me as you do.' 'Dear Odd! If one's friends do not openly laugh at him, they are not, in fact, his friends. How else would one learn to avoid saying those things that would elicit laughter from strangers? The mockery of friends is affectionate, and inoculates against foolishness.'

Dean R. Koontz#38

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About this quote

What does it mean?
True friends laugh at your flaws to help you learn and avoid foolishness.
In plain terms
Friends mock you to help you improve.
What can you take from it?
Accept mockery from friends as a lesson.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • welcome constructive criticism

Questions to consider

  • Is mockery healthy?
  • Can you learn from laughter?

Another view

Mockery can hurt without genuine care.

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