Loneliness comes in two basic varieties. When it results from a desire for solitude, loneliness is a door we close against the world. When the world instead rejects us, loneliness is an open door, unused.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Koontz distinguishes between chosen solitude and rejected isolation, framing loneliness as either a closed or open door.
- In plain terms
- Loneliness can be choosing to be alone or being forced to be alone by others.
- What can you take from it?
- Distinguish between chosen solitude and forced isolation.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Are you alone by choice or circumstance?
- How do you view being alone?
Another view
The metaphor may oversimplify complex emotional states.
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