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What does it mean?
People often react negatively to things that reflect their own flaws or actions.
In plain terms
Those offended often deserve it because of their own behavior.
What can you take from it?
Reflect on your own actions when feeling offended.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • public criticism
  • personal feedback

Putting it to work

  • analyze self before blaming others
  • consider irony in complaints

Questions to consider

  • When did your own action cause offense?
  • How do you handle criticism?

Another view

Not all offense is justified; genuine wrongs exist.

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