You find something agreeable in almost everyone. I am put off by anything not wholly agreeable. ~ Evelyn Waugh in a letter to Cooper.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker notes a tendency to find agreeable traits in most people but is repelled by anything wholly disagreeable.
- In plain terms
- I usually see good in people, but I avoid things I dislike entirely.
- What can you take from it?
- Seek common ground but recognize personal limits.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When does seeking agreeableness become avoidance?
- How can you balance openness with discernment?
Another view
Overemphasis on agreeableness can suppress honest critique.
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