Let every one of us cultivate, in every word that issues from our mouth, absolute truth. I say cultivate, because to very few people - as may be noticed of most young children - does truth, this rigid, literal veracity, come by nature. To many, even who love it and prize it dearly in others, it comes only after the self-control, watchfulness, and bitter experience of years. ~ Ch. 8
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Truthfulness is a skill that requires cultivation and self-control rather than coming naturally to most people.
- In plain terms
- Being completely honest takes practice and self-discipline over time.
- What can you take from it?
- Practice truthfulness consciously as it does not come naturally.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is it hard to tell the truth?
- How do you practice honesty?
Another view
Strict literal truth can sometimes harm relationships if not balanced with kindness.
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