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'Believe only half of what you see, and nothing that you hear,' is a cynical saying, and yet less bitter than at first appears. It does not argue that human nature is false, but simply that it is human nature. How can any fallible human being with two eyes, two ears, one judgment, and one brain - all more or less limited in their apprehensions of things external, and biased by a thousand internal impressions, purely individual - how can we possibly decide on even the plainest actions of another, to say nothing of the words, which may have gone through half-a-dozen different translations and modifications, or the motives, which can only be known to the Omniscient Himself? ~ Ch. 8

Dinah Craik#22

Human natureJudgmentTruthBiasPerception

About this quote

What does it mean?
Human perception is limited, so judging others based on hearsay is flawed.
In plain terms
Since we have limits, don't believe everything you hear about people.
What can you take from it?
Limit your judgments of others; perception is flawed.

Where it applies

  • disputes
  • reputation
  • decision making

Putting it to work

  • verify facts
  • pause judgment
  • assume good intent

Questions to consider

  • How limited is your view?
  • When to trust hearsay?

Another view

Sometimes hearsay reveals real risks.

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