It is a curious truth - and yet a truth forced upon us by daily observation - that it is not the women who have suffered most who are the unhappy women. A state of permanent unhappiness - not the morbid, half-cherished melancholy of youth, which generally wears off with wiser years, but that settled, incurable discontent and dissatisfaction with all things and all people, which we see in some women, is, with very rare exceptions, at once the index and the exponent of a thoroughly selfish character. ~ Ch. 10
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Lasting unhappiness is often linked to selfishness rather than the amount of suffering a person has endured.
- In plain terms
- People who stay unhappy are often more selfish than those who suffered more.
- What can you take from it?
- Check your own selfishness when feeling unhappy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does my unhappiness serve myself?
- How does attitude affect joy?
Another view
Not all chronic unhappiness stems from selfishness.
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