This is practically the language used to fallen women, and chiefly by their own sex: 'God may forgive you, but we never can!' - a declaration which, however common, in spirit if not in substance, is, when one comes to analyse it, unparalleled in its arrogance of blasphemy. That for a single offence, however grave, a whole life should be blasted, is a doctrine repugnant even to Nature's own dealings in the visible world. ~ Ch. 11
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The quote criticizes the harsh judgment of those who have made mistakes, arguing that no single offense should ruin a whole life.
- In plain terms
- Judging someone forever for one mistake is arrogant and unfair.
- What can you take from it?
- Forgive mistakes rather than permanently condemning others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When do you think judgment becomes harsh?
- Is permanent shaming ever right?
Another view
Some repeated offenses may require stronger consequences.
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