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What does it mean?
Work with human nature as it exists rather than trying to remake it entirely.
In plain terms
Accept people as they are and improve from there.
What can you take from it?
Start from reality, not ideals.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • education
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • assess baseline behaviors
  • design realistic interventions

Questions to consider

  • Where do you accept vs. fix?
  • What assumptions do you hold about people?

Another view

Some aspects of human nature can be reshaped.

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