It seemed as if she had given these treasures and left him alone - to use them or lose them, apply them or misapply them, according to his own choice. That is all we can do with children, when they grow into big children, old enough to distinguish between right and wrong, and too old to be forced to do either. ~ Ch 7
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Children must be given freedom to make choices, learning right from wrong as they mature, without being forced.
- In plain terms
- Allow children autonomy to learn moral decisions as they grow.
- What can you take from it?
- Provide guidance but respect a child's developing independence.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Where is the balance between guidance and freedom?
- How do you correct mistakes without coercion?
Another view
Too much freedom can lead to harmful choices without proper guidance.
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