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demons and fishhooks he exclaimed i am losing my personal identity as a worm my individuality is melting away from me odds craw i am becoming part and parcel of this bloody robin so help me i am thinking like a robin and not like a worm any longer yes yes i even find myself agreeing that a robin must live i still do not understand with my mentality why a robin must live and yet i swoon into a condition of belief

Don Marquis#23

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker fears losing their unique self as they adopt the habits and beliefs of another creature.
In plain terms
I am losing myself by thinking like someone else.
What can you take from it?
Guard your unique identity when influenced by others.

Where it applies

  • adopting new cultures
  • working in a rigid team
  • falling in love

Putting it to work

  • reflect on core values
  • maintain personal hobbies

Questions to consider

  • When have you felt yourself change?
  • What parts of you are non-negotiable?

Another view

Some identity loss is necessary for growth or survival.

More from Don Marquis

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  2. amen said a beetle who had preceded him into the interior that is the way i feel myself is it not wonderful when one arrives at the place where he can give up …

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  3. i asked him why is it that you are so greatly favored ask rather said warty bliggens what the universe has done to deserve me

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