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What does it mean?
True advice emerges through experience rather than immediate reaction.
In plain terms
Good advice comes after time to reflect.
What can you take from it?
Let time pass before giving counsel.

Where it applies

  • giving feedback
  • making decisions
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • wait before advising
  • sleep on problems
  • gather perspectives

Questions to consider

  • When is waiting beneficial?
  • How long is too long?

Another view

Some situations need immediate guidance rather than delayed counsel.

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