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What does it mean?
She critiques someone who is socially incapable of setting boundaries.
In plain terms
She knows many languages but not how to say no.
What can you take from it?
Learning to say no is a vital skill.

Where it applies

  • socializing
  • negotiation
  • workplace

Putting it to work

  • practice saying no
  • set clear boundaries
  • value your time

Questions to consider

  • Why is it hard to say no?
  • How many ways can you refuse?

Another view

Not saying no can sometimes be a cultural politeness strategy.

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