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What does it mean?
The speaker expresses concern that they are becoming a burden to others.
In plain terms
I worry I am troubling people.
What can you take from it?
Be mindful of how your needs affect those around you.

Where it applies

  • after asking for help
  • when staying with friends
  • in caregiving situations

Putting it to work

  • check in with others
  • offer space
  • ask direct feedback

Questions to consider

  • When do you feel most intrusive?
  • How do others actually perceive your requests?

Another view

Sometimes people appreciate being needed more than the speaker realizes.

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