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What does it mean?
Forgiveness for this person is unconditional and not tied to looks, intelligence, or character.
In plain terms
People forgive him regardless of his looks or smarts because of It.
What can you take from it?
Charisma can override judgment of character flaws.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal relationships
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • observe charisma bias
  • evaluate character separately

Questions to consider

  • Does charm excuse bad behavior?
  • How do you judge others fairly?

Another view

This dynamic can enable poor behavior or leadership.

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