To have 'It', the fortunate possessor must have that strange magnetism which attracts both sexes. He or she must be entirely unselfconscious and full of self-confidence, indifferent to the effect he or she is producing, and uninfluenced by others. There must be physical attraction, but beauty is unnecessary.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- True 'It' involves a rare mix of magnetism, confidence, and lack of self-consciousness that transcends physical beauty.
- In plain terms
- To have It you need charm and confidence without worrying about what others think.
- What can you take from it?
- Confidence and ease matter more than looks.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes someone magnetic?
- Is confidence more important than beauty?
Another view
This standard can feel inaccessible to those with high social anxiety.
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