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What does it mean?
Calling back painful memories only deepens loneliness, and some pain must be endured in silence.
In plain terms
Bringing up past pain makes loneliness worse.
What can you take from it?
Silence can protect against deeper pain.

Where it applies

  • after a breakup
  • during mourning
  • feeling alone

Putting it to work

  • accept silence
  • avoid dwelling on loss
  • find private outlets

Questions to consider

  • When is silence better than speaking out?
  • How do you cope with isolation?

Another view

Silence can sometimes lead to unresolved emotional issues.

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