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What does it mean?
Some burdens cannot be shared with others.
In plain terms
There are heavy things you must carry alone.
What can you take from it?
Accept that some pain is private.

Where it applies

  • dealing with grief
  • secret struggles
  • privacy

Putting it to work

  • journaling
  • self reliance
  • setting boundaries

Questions to consider

  • What can you not tell anyone?
  • How do you carry secrets?

Another view

Some burdens become easier when shared.

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