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What does it mean?
Marriage can feel like buying a woman's autonomy and soul.
In plain terms
Marriage can cost a woman her independence and free will.
What can you take from it?
Marriage should not cost autonomy.

Where it applies

  • historical context
  • relationship critique

Putting it to work

  • value autonomy
  • challenge ownership

Questions to consider

  • How do you maintain autonomy in relationships?
  • Where does control begin?

Another view

It presents a pessimistic view of marital unions.

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