If I married him, I would not dare to call my soul my own, Which so he had bought and paid for: every thought And every heart-beat down there in the bill,- Not one found honestly deductible From any use that pleased him!
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Marriage can feel like buying a woman's autonomy and soul.
- In plain terms
- Marriage can cost a woman her independence and free will.
- What can you take from it?
- Marriage should not cost autonomy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you maintain autonomy in relationships?
- Where does control begin?
Another view
It presents a pessimistic view of marital unions.
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