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What does it mean?
Lessons and personal growth from past experiences become a permanent part of who we are.
In plain terms
What we learn and how we grow from experiences becomes part of our lives forever.
What can you take from it?
Past experiences permanently shape personal growth.

Where it applies

  • personal development
  • life review
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • reflect on past lessons
  • acknowledge personal growth

Questions to consider

  • What experience shaped you most?
  • How has past learning changed you?

Another view

Some experiences may hinder growth rather than graft positive change.

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