We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck . . . But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Relationships endure not just due to attraction or habit, but because partners choose to forgive and appreciate each other.
- In plain terms
- Love lasts because people forgive and thank each other, not just because of chemistry.
- What can you take from it?
- Forgiveness and gratitude are essential for lasting love.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What do you appreciate most about your partner?
- How does forgiveness change your view of love?
Another view
Some relationships may fail despite forgiveness if other core issues remain.
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