Surely we have had enough of confusing maleness with 'usefulness' and other human virtues. If men had a more modest view of what their masculinity ought to entail, perhaps they could move on from debilitating feelings of loss to tackling their real economic and political problems.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Men should stop equating masculinity with usefulness and adopt a modest view to address real economic and political issues.
- In plain terms
- Stop tying manhood to being useful so men can focus on real problems.
- What can you take from it?
- Redefine masculinity to focus on solving real problems.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How does usefulness define your self-worth?
- What would modest masculinity look like?
Another view
Defining manhood by usefulness often reflects societal pressures not personal choices.
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