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What does it mean?
Men should stop equating masculinity with usefulness and adopt a modest view to address real economic and political issues.
In plain terms
Stop tying manhood to being useful so men can focus on real problems.
What can you take from it?
Redefine masculinity to focus on solving real problems.

Where it applies

  • personal growth
  • policy advocacy
  • mental health

Putting it to work

  • Separate self-worth from productivity
  • Advocate for economic security

Questions to consider

  • How does usefulness define your self-worth?
  • What would modest masculinity look like?

Another view

Defining manhood by usefulness often reflects societal pressures not personal choices.

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