On rare occasions one does hear of a miraculous case of a married couple falling in love after marriage, but on close examination it will be found that it is a mere adjustment to the inevitable.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love after marriage is rare and often just adapting to reality rather than a miracle.
- In plain terms
- Couples finding love after marriage usually just accept what they have.
- What can you take from it?
- Accept reality rather than expecting magic in marriage.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can love grow after marriage?
- Is adjustment the same as love?
Another view
It dismisses genuine affection that develops over time in long-term relationships.
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