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What does it mean?
Fear of attraction is mutual; the speaker realized the object of affection was equally intimidated.
In plain terms
I was scared of pretty girls, but they are scared of me too.
What can you take from it?
Shared vulnerability can dissolve social anxiety.

Where it applies

  • social interactions
  • dating anxiety
  • first meetings

Putting it to work

  • approach others with empathy
  • recognize mutual nervousness

Questions to consider

  • Why do you feel intimidated by others?
  • How can you see past surface-level confidence?

Another view

Not everyone feels fear in attractive situations; this is situational.

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