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What does it mean?
First decide who you want to become, then act accordingly to achieve that identity.
In plain terms
Define your ideal self, then do what’s needed.
What can you take from it?
Set a clear self‑image and act to match it.

Where it applies

  • career planning
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • write a vision statement
  • take concrete steps

Questions to consider

  • What does your ideal self look like?
  • How do you bridge the gap between vision and action?

Another view

Self‑image can be unrealistic without feedback.

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