Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are opinion, pursuit, desire, aversion, and, in a word, whatever are our own actions. Things not in our control are body, property, reputation, command, and, in one word, whatever are not our own actions. (1)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Some things are within our control—thoughts, desires, actions—while others—body, property, reputation—are not.
- In plain terms
- Control your mind and actions, not external possessions.
- What can you take from it?
- Focus energy on what you can control.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you distinguish controllable from uncontrollable?
- What benefits arise from this distinction?
Another view
Perceived control can be illusory in complex situations.
More from Epictetus
First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.
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