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What does it mean?
When dealing with injustice, focus on the person’s humanity rather than the wrongful act.
In plain terms
See the brother, not just his bad behavior.
What can you take from it?
Approach others with empathy, even when they act unjustly.

Where it applies

  • conflict with a colleague
  • family dispute
  • community disagreement

Putting it to work

  • address the person, not just the act
  • find common ground

Questions to consider

  • When have I responded to injustice with compassion?
  • How can I balance empathy with accountability?

Another view

Over‑empathizing may enable repeated injustice.

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