What you shun enduring yourself, attempt not to impose on others. You shun slavery-beware of enslaving others! If you can endure to do that, one would think you had been once upon a time a slave yourself. For Vice has nothing in common with virtue, nor Freedom with slavery. (41)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Do not impose on others what you yourself cannot endure; avoid enslaving others, as vice and freedom are opposed.
- In plain terms
- Treat others as you wish to be treated.
- What can you take from it?
- Respect others' autonomy.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What limits do you impose on yourself and others?
Another view
Self‑knowledge of limits can be hard to assess.
More from Epictetus
If then all things that grow, nay, our own bodies, are thus bound up with the whole, is not this still truer of our souls? And if our souls are bound up and in…
Permalink to quote #37 A guide, on finding a man who has lost his way, brings him back to the right path-he does not mock and jeer at him and then take himself off. You also must sho…
Permalink to quote #39 When we are invited to a banquet, we take what is set before us; and were one to call upon his host to set fish upon the table or sweet things, he would be dee…
Permalink to quote #36
Related quotes
Wouldst have the princely spirit bowed? Whisper only, speak not loud, Mark and leave him in the crowd. Thou need'st not spies nor jailers have; The free will s…
Margaret FullerMargaret Fuller quote #65 He who will establish himself on a certain height must yield according to circumstances, like the weather-cock on a church-spire, which, though it be made of i…
Heinrich HeineHeinrich Heine quote #8 It is preoccupation with possession, more than anything else, that prevents men from living freely and nobly.
Bertrand RussellBertrand Russell quote #12