It was the first and most striking characteristic of Socrates never to become heated in discourse, never to utter an injurious or insulting word-on the contrary, he persistently bore insult from others and thus put an end to the fray. (64)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Socrates never raised his voice or insulted others; he endured insults to end conflict.
- In plain terms
- Stay calm and avoid insults, even when provoked.
- What can you take from it?
- Patience and restraint can defuse heated arguments.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What are the limits of tolerating abuse?
- How do you protect yourself while staying calm?
Another view
Enduring insults may be seen as weakness.
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