Canst thou judge men?... then make us imitators of thyself, as Socrates did. Do this, do not do that, else will I cast thee into prison; this is not governing men like reasonable creatures. Say rather, As God hath ordained, so do; else thou wilt suffer chastisement and loss. Askest thou what loss? None other than this: To have left undone what thou shouldst have done: to have lost the faithfulness, the reverence, the modesty that is in thee! Greater loss than this seek not to find! (91)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Judge others by your own example, follow reason, and avoid imposing harsh punishments; failure to act virtuously is the greatest loss.
- In plain terms
- Lead by example and act virtuously, not by harsh rule.
- What can you take from it?
- Your loss is in not living up to your own standards.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What does it mean to be a good example?
- How do you balance fairness and compassion?
Another view
Ideal behavior may be hard to maintain consistently.
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