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It is hard to combine and unite these two qualities, the carefulness of one who is affected by circumstances, and the intrepidity of one who heeds them not. But it is not impossible: else were happiness also impossible. We should act as we do in seafaring: 'What can I do?'-Choose the master, the crew, the day, the opportunity. Then comes a sudden storm. What matters it to me? my part has been fully done. The matter is in the hands of another-the Master of the ship. The ship is foundering. What then have I to do? I do the only thing that remains to me-to be drowned without fear, without a cry, without upbraiding God, but knowing that what has been born must likewise perish. For I am not Eternity, but a human being-a part of the whole, as an hour is part of the day. I must come like the hour, and like the hour must pass! (186)

Epictetus#56

StoicismMindfulnessResilienceAcceptanceCourageResponsibility

About this quote

What does it mean?
Balancing carefulness with boldness is hard but possible; like a sailor, do your part, accept what you cannot control, and face storms without fear.
In plain terms
Do your best, accept what you cannot change, and stay calm in crisis.
What can you take from it?
Focus on your own actions, not external chaos.

Where it applies

  • career setbacks
  • personal crises

Putting it to work

  • prepare responsibly
  • let go of uncontrollable outcomes

Questions to consider

  • How do you know when to accept vs. act?
  • What does 'doing your part' look like?

Another view

Sometimes in is required to change circumstances.

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