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What wouldst thou be found doing when overtaken by Death? If I might choose, I would be found doing some deed of true humanity, of wide import, beneficent and noble. But if I may not be found engaged in aught so lofty, let me hope at least for this-what none may hinder, what is surely in my power-that I may be found raising up in myself that which had fallen; learning to deal more wisely with the things of sense; working out my own tranquillity, and thus rendering that which is its due to every relation of life:. If death surprise me thus employed, it is enough if I can stretch forth my hands to God and say, 'The faculties which I received at Thy hands for apprehending this thine Administration, I have not neglected. As far as in me lay, I have done Thee no dishonour. Behold how I have used the senses, the primary conceptions which Thou gavest me. Have I ever laid anything to Thy charge? Have I ever murmured at aught that came to pass, or wished it otherwise? Have I in anything transgressed the relations of life? For that Thou didst beget me, I thank Thee for that Thou hast given: for the time during which I have used the things that were Thine, it suffices me. Take them back and place them wherever Thou wilt! They were all Thine, and Thou gavest them me.'-If a man depart thus minded, is it not enough? What life is fairer or more noble, what end happier than his? (189)

Epictetus#57

StoicismEthicsVirtueDeath

About this quote

What does it mean?
When death comes, aim to have acted virtuously; if not, at least have cultivated inner tranquility and used your senses wisely.
In plain terms
Live virtuously so death finds you at peace.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize moral actions and inner calm over external achievements.

Where it applies

  • end-of-life reflections
  • major life decisions

Putting it to work

  • practice daily virtue
  • develop emotional steadiness

Questions to consider

  • What does a virtuous life look like to you?
  • How can you cultivate tranquility now?

Another view

Not everyone can achieve a sense of peace before death.

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