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What does it mean?
Being insensitive often stems from not understanding your own feelings and motivations.
In plain terms
If you do not know yourself, you will not understand others.
What can you take from it?
Self awareness is the foundation of empathy for others.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal conflict
  • team dynamics
  • counseling

Putting it to work

  • improving relationships
  • leadership training
  • conflict resolution

Questions to consider

  • How well do I know my own emotions?
  • Where do I lack empathy?

Another view

Some insensitivity may stem from external factors like stress rather than self unawareness.

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