Skip to content
quotesby

The real 'haves' are they who can acquire freedom, self-confidence, and even riches without depriving others of them. They acquire all of these by developing and applying their potentialities. On the other hand, the real 'have nots' are they who cannot have aught except by depriving others of it. They can feel free only by diminishing the freedom of others, self-confident by spreading fear and dependence among others, and rich by making others poor.

Eric Hoffer#49

FreedomGrowthLeadershipSuccessEqualityPotentialWealth

About this quote

What does it mean?
True wealth and freedom come from developing personal potential without taking from others. Those who lack these traits try to gain status by diminishing others.
In plain terms
Real success comes from growing yourself, not from making others weaker.
What can you take from it?
Success built on others' loss is false and unstable.

Where it applies

  • business ethics
  • leadership
  • social mobility

Putting it to work

  • focus on skill development
  • avoid zero-sum thinking
  • measure inclusive growth

Questions to consider

  • Do you view success as inclusive or competitive?
  • How do you define true wealth?

Another view

Structural barriers sometimes prevent individuals from developing potential regardless of attitude.

More from Eric Hoffer

  1. The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbor as ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate others when we hate ourselves. We are…

    Permalink to quote #48
  2. Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind.

    Permalink to quote #50
  3. Modern man is weighed down more by the burden of responsibility than by the burden of sin. We think him more a savior who shoulders our responsibilities than h…

    Permalink to quote #47

Related quotes

  1. If a man is not bound down, he is sure to succeed.

    Alexander Graham BellAlexander Graham Bell quote #14
  2. The task of leadership is not to put greatness into humanity, but to elicit it, for the greatness is already there.

    John BuchanJohn Buchan quote #1
  3. To add to golden numbers golden numbers.

    Thomas DekkerThomas Dekker quote #3