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What does it mean?
Good manners are more important for plain-looking people because attractive people can get away with rude behavior.
In plain terms
Plain people need good manners more than pretty people do.
What can you take from it?
Manners serve as a social equalizer for those without physical advantages.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • self-presentation
  • appearance bias

Putting it to work

  • practice manners
  • ignore looks
  • focus on behavior

Questions to consider

  • Do we judge people differently based on looks?
  • Are manners just a compensation for beauty?

Another view

It reinforces a cynical view that beauty allows for poor behavior.

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