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What does it mean?
Politeness and manners can mask a haughty temperament toward those one disdains.
In plain terms
He was polite to some but rude and cold to others.
What can you take from it?
Manners often reflect selective respect rather than genuine warmth.

Where it applies

  • social interactions
  • professional conduct
  • first impressions

Putting it to work

  • observe consistency in behavior
  • manage social expectations

Questions to consider

  • Do manners reveal character?
  • How do we treat those we dislike?

Another view

Judging character by manners alone can be misleading.

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