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What does it mean?
Politeness is called the best form of hiding your true feelings.
In plain terms
Politeness is good hypocrisy.
What can you take from it?
Courtesy often masks true feelings.

Where it applies

  • social interactions
  • discussing manners
  • cultural norms

Putting it to work

  • navigate social norms
  • practice courtesy
  • analyze behavior

Questions to consider

  • Is politeness always fake?
  • Why do we hide feelings?

Another view

It assumes all politeness is insincere.

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  2. Politics, n. A strife of interests masquerading as a contest of principles. The conduct of public affairs for private advantage.

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  3. Patience, n. A minor form of despair, disguised as a virtue.

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