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What does it mean?
Natural dignity and good manners command respect even from opponents.
In plain terms
His good manners and dignity made people respect him.
What can you take from it?
Courtesy can win respect across differences.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • conflict resolution
  • negotiation

Putting it to work

  • cultivate personal dignity
  • use manners to deescalate

Questions to consider

  • What earns respect from foes?
  • Can manners bridge divides?

Another view

Respect based on manners may not translate to agreement.

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